December 30, 2011

A terrifying discovery

This is a continuation of my story.  If you missed the first part click here.

I was still in shock.  My sister called the police.  Soon there were five police cars with two officers in each on the street and in our driveway.  He made a break for it out the back door.  They chased him down, and within minutes he was sitting in the back of one of the patrol cars.

The questioning seemed urgent and chaotic.  Three officers were standing over me, one wanted to take pictures of my neck.  After things started to calm down, and the shock wore off, I had one last request of the officers.

While deep cleaning our home a few weeks back I made a terrifying discovery.  I had been vacuuming in our bedroom, and it kept hitting something under the bed.  Kneeling on the floor I reached for the object.  It was a shotgun, but it didn't look like the one my father had owned and kept locked up when I was a girl.  This one was shorter, and the end looked rough.

After confronting him about the gun laying under our bed, I demanded that it be moved to the garage and locked up.  He laughed at me, and assured me it was fine where it was.  I could tell immediately this was not an argument I would win, but I made it very clear I wasn't happy.  We had a baby that would be crawling some day.  What if he found the gun and thought it was a toy?  He told me if I was doing my job as a mother I shouldn't have anything to worry about.

So, with the police standing there, and him arrested and leaving my home, I wanted the gun to go with them.  I brought it out of the bedroom.  After handing it over one of the officers told me that it was illegal to have a "sawed off shotgun".  I told the officer it was his, so it should go with him. They said they couldn't take it, and that I should get rid of it as soon as possible. 

Let me ask you, 'How do you get rid of a sawed off shotgun?'

As the police pulled away from my home, and friends and family gathered around, a new type of shock started taking root.  Advice and comfort could not dispel the anger, hurt, and disbelief of what had just happened.

Before I met this man I'd been a strong, independent, resourceful woman.  Now I was unsure, scared, and feeling completely inept at handling anything.  What was I going to do?

3 comments:

  1. The police didn't take the shot gun how ridiculous is that! So how do you get rid of a shot gun, it is not like you can list it on Craig's list or eBay!

    How terrifying to find a gun in your home! So glad you got away from him, stay strong

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  2. Wow, what an awful experience for you. I know it is healing to write about it. Many of us will pray for you and your sweet son. Even though it happened a while ago; it is still a grieving process and it is important to go through all the stages of grief. I do hope that you had or do have someone that you can talk to about this life changing experience.
    Blessings to you and I know you can trust again and that our Heavenly Father and Savior Jesus Christ are just a prayer away.

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  3. Oh my Lynda, I can't imagine the fear you must have felt from this experience. I too can't believe the cops wouldn't take the gun! I pray that through these posts your heart and soul will heal and you will continue to grow stronger each day in your faith to face what lies ahead in the future! You are in my prayers and may your posts on healing heal others as well. Thank you for your openness to share your story! God bless and may 2012 bring you much peace, joy, and happiness!

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